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Interracial Dating 2011 ~ Have Things Changed?

“Love sees no color.” – KJ Jerome

It has been almost 150 years since the emancipation of slaves and the abolishment of slavery and over 60 years since upstanding men like Martin Luther King and Malcolm X drove the Civil Rights Movement in an attempt for minorities to gain equality with Caucasians in this country.  As a nation we’ve made strides and have become more accepting, culminating in the fact that we now have an African-American, Barack Hussein Obama, as our Head of State.  However, despite how far we’ve come, we still have a very long way to go.

I was catching up with a long time friend of mine today that informed me that her love life had become rather complicated within the last few months.  She explained to me that she’d fallen in love with a close friend, and although he has feelings for her as well, dating for them would be almost impossible because of the fact that his parents don’t like that she’s African-American (He’s Caucasian).  When his parents found out, his mom asked, “Why’d it have to be a black girl?”  I guess we should be grateful she didn’t ask, “Why’d it have to be a “nigger” woman?”  It also seems his dad has threatened to exclude him from his will if the relationship continues. 

Seriously? Would the situation have garnered less hostility if the subjects were reversed?  To some extent it seems that African-American women catch more hell for dating outside of their race-especially if it’s a Caucasian male-than African-American men.  I wonder why that is exactly…

One has to ask, ‘What’s so bad about interracial dating?”  Is there something that I’m not getting?  Personally I think we should all date outside our perspective races to muddy up the waters a bit, that way we won’t be able to differentiate who’s what.  Why are we still so caught up with color?  The color of your skin has no bearing on who you are as a person, or who you’re going to become, at least it shouldn’t.  Maybe it’s in the upbringing.  As a child I played with children of other races and had no classification of who they were other than “my friends”.  In various aspects of my adult life I’ve now grown to classify other adults not by color but as co-worker, boss, lover, friend, enemy, etc.  I can still see the identifying color of this skin, but I DON”T CARE. People should be judged by their actions and what is in their heart, not on their complexion.

As for my friend and her dilemma, the only advice I could give her was to “do what makes you happy”.  If being with this man is what you want then got for it.  In the end you’re dating him and not his parents or anyone else that is bringing negativity into your relationship.  Let your heart guide you and not your eyes.  Remember, love sees no color.

@TheKrayze1

(For those interested in interracial dating you can check out www.coffeeandcreamlove.com. It’s a very resourceful site that allows you to connect with thousands of potential singles.)

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and the article Race Relations Please visit my lovely friend James’s Blog for other article for singles and dating.

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Americans and Interracial Dating Diversity adds spice to Dating

American are dating people of other races and ethnic groups more than ever. Dating someone who is so different from you can be very exciting and add new experiences in your life. When you go out people tend to notice and take note of you. If you want to date outside of your race and culture online dating sites can lend you a hand in finding singles that are open to just that experience.

If you are a singles and would like to date outside of your own ethnic group can you find a place online to do it? You can if you look to niche dating. Niche dating is a term used in the online dating industry used to define specialty dating. Say you like interracial dating, then you would need to find a dating site that caters to that need. They exist by the thousands and they are the best place to find people who are interested in interracial dating, sites like IvoryandEbonylove.com an interracial dating site for black and white singles looking for dating and relationships online.

FindingAsianDates.com is an Asian dating site for Asian Singles and people interested in dating Asian singles. This is NOT an Asian bride site but a site for dating and meeting Asian singles from The US to all parts of the world where they might live. This site was design for Asian singles to meet each other and singles that admire them and their culture.

Hispanic singles can join a site that caters to their race and culture and the people who are attracted to them as well. LatinoDatingNow.com is a Latin dating site for Latina singles and their admirers. This sites as well as the other mentioned in this article are free to join and has thousands of singles online and ready to mix and mingle online.

If you are looking for dating beyond your own culture or race online dating sites are a fun way to try it out. You will meet thousands of singles that are interested in the same thing as you interracial dating. Niche dating can guide you to a welcoming place where interracial dating is happening everyday.

Black And White Affair~Interracial Dating

What looks better with Black than White? They compliment each other and make the beauty of each more intense.The contrast is easy on the eyes. If you think opposites attract and are interested in interracial dating then you may really like an interracial dating site. The buzz in online dating is that in traditional matchmaking sites  people tend to date within their own race. This is where it would pay to find a site that caters to interracial dating. There are hundreds of sites that do just that. Now which one is best and has what you are looking for.
We have worked in the online dating industry almost from the very start. After looking around and trying to find a site that has people looking out for its members and a great staff to support its members we started working with Tangowire. Quality members,great sites, and a wonderful staff that is interested in making the people who use their sites happy with the service.
InterracialDatingNow.com is one of many interracial dating site that are part of Tangowire and has a vast pool of quality members in a safe online environment where the satisfactory of service for its member is a number one priority. Tangowire cares about the people who join their sites and the people working for them.
InterracialDatingNow.com is working constantly to give quality service and up-to-date features for its members to enjoy.
Features include:
Free profile with pictures
Free search
Free to receive e-mail and reply
Free flirting
Profile verification
Blog
Virtual Dating
Go Mobile
You can search for local singles or singles from anywhere on the globe. This site is working hard for member satisfaction and has people that will give you a little help along the way to insure you get the best experience. Try InterracialDatingnow.com for free and we believe you will find what we have found. InterracialDatingNow.com is a quality interracial dating site in the sea of interracial dating sites that are online today.

From the Blog Romancing the Net

Are you into Interracial Dating? Study says Yes And No?

http://charlotte.creativeloafing.com/gyrobase/southern_blend_a_dating_experiment/Content?oid=1247232

Interesting article about interracial dating and places that it seems taboo. How do you feel about interracial dating? Common answer found..It’s okay for other people to do it but it’s not for me. Study after study finds that even in 2011 most people date within their own culture and race. People have preconceived ideas about races and ethnic groups that tend to steer them away or towards a group. Do we still judge people based on race? The answer seems to be yes.

If you are a singles and would like to date outside of your own ethnic group can you find a place online to do it? You can if you look to niche dating. Niche dating is a term used in the online dating industry used to define specialty dating. Say you like interracial dating, then you would need to find a dating site that caters to that need. They exist by the thousands and they are the best place to find people who are interested in interracial dating, sites like IvoryandEbonylove.com an interracial dating site for black and white singles looking for dating and relationships online.

Asian Singles have their own struggles with racism and stereotypical ideas about their race. Some people are attracted to those ideal while other spurn Asian singles for them. The same problems face Asian singles when it comes to online dating and a solution is to go to a niche made for Asian single daters. FindingAsianDates.com is an Asian dating site for Asian Singles and people interested in dating Asian singles. This is NOT an Asian bride site but a site for dating and meeting Asian singles from The US to all parts of the world where they might live.

Latin singles are in the same boat when it comes to beliefs about their culture. Those ideas about them as a group are a plus for some and a complete turn off to others. Mainstream online dating sites pose a problem for them too. Often they are overlooked by daters because they have preconceived ideas about dating Latino singles. Niche dating comes to the rescue again. Hispanic singles can join a site that caters to their race and culture and the people who are attracted to them. LatinoDatingNow.com is a Latino dating site for Latin singles and their admirers.

In this day and age you would think that racism in dating would no longer exist. It does still exist according to studies in that people accept interracial couples but just aren’t that open to dating outside their own ethnic group. Many things have changed as far as acceptance of interracial couples but there are still some old ideas hanging around too.

Article from IvoryandEbonyLove.blogspot.com

Interracial Dating Haven

 From the Blog Ivoryandebonylove.blogspot.com

Research says that online daters tend to date within their own race. What if you are looking for interracial dating online? If you think opposites attract and are interested in interracial dating then you may really like interracial dating sites. The buzz in the online dating industry is that in traditional matchmaking sites people tend to date within their own race. This is where it would pay to find a site that caters to interracial dating. There are hundreds of sites that do just that. Now which one is best and has what you are looking for.
We have worked in the online dating industry almost from the very start. After looking around and trying to find a site that has people looking out for members and a great staff to support members we started working with Tangowire. Quality members, great sites, and a wonderful staff that is interested in making the people who use their sites happy with the service.
IvoryandEbonyLove.com is one of many interracial dating sites that are part of Tangowire and has a vast pool of quality members in a safe online environment where the satisfactory of service for member is a number one priority. Tangowire cares about the people who join their sites and the people working for them.
This Interracial dating site is working constantly to give quality service and up-to-date features for members to enjoy.
Features include:
Free profile with pictures
Free search
Free to receive e-mail and reply
Free flirting
Profile verification
Blog
Virtual Dating
Go Mobile
You can search for local singles or singles from anywhere on the globe. This site is working hard for member satisfaction and has people who will give you a little help along the way to insure you get the best experience. Try this site for free and we believe you will find what we have found. Ivoryandebonylove.com is a quality interracial dating site in the sea of interracial dating sites that are online today.
Uk.IvoryandEbonylove.com is the same great site but is made for interracial dating in the UK. All the features in a dating site that a member needs to have an excellent dating experience online.
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