Advice For Men ~Dishy’s telling it!

Another post from that great Blogger and Twitter friend Dishy Divorcee…

Most women are NOT turned on by a man, in a wife beater t-shirt, holding a string of trout while leaning against a muscle car. While this might be a great way to display your accomplishments, this images does not cause a woman to say “I want me some of THAT.”

Another profile picture don’t is the blacked-out face of an old girlfriend. You know, the prom-like position with a well dressed blond and the online-would be-dater looking happy as clams. Only the blond no longer has a FACE and you are obviously not together anymore. Please, find a photo where you are the main attraction, not the face-less ex.

The murky grey, elementary school background. I’m amazed how many men (and I assume women) post a mystery photo from years gone by – the school cafeteria pose, sitting slightly sideways; chin tilted – is it 1971, 1984, 1993? It’s anyone’s guess. I give props to those who find the most obscure photo imaginable, but the braces and mullet completely throw me off.

A tricked-out photo: are those really six-pack abs? The naked truth about the naked torso is that, yes, we can see that you workout, but wouldn’t it be better to let us discover that on our own? Bottom line, it’s either an old photo from college or the shaded muscle definition has been added for effect.

The sultry-over-the-sunglasses-gaze. Unless you’re Patrick Dempsey, don’t attempt it. You just look ridiculous.

And for Pete’s sake, DON’T take a photo of yourself in the mirror.

Here are a few other quick thoughts:
■Don’t be embarrassed to have a friend or sibling take the photos of you. Its way less embarrassing than having one of the above don’ts out there.
■Find life-style photos where you, and only you, are the main attraction.
■Choose close-up, well-defined photos. (Taking a teeny-tiny photo and enlarging it will result in grainy, out-of-focus pictures.)
■Don’t post photos more than 5 years old.
■Post photos doing what you do best; cooking, sports, gardening, skiing, etc.

Just remember, you are the star attraction, not your abs, retro Miami-Vice clothing or bedroom eyes (Well, sometimes the eyes might work). Let me end by saying, the only thing worse than a bad photo is not posting a photo at all.

– XXOO

Dishy Divorcee

I’ve found a New Love~ Online Dating

The Sites We Love

I’m in love with something New..

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Oldies but Goodies

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Dating From the Laptop

 Imagine sitting at your computer at home and finding love romance or friendship at the click of your mouse. An Internet connection and a few clicks of your keyboard and mouse will take you to cyber dating, a new contemporary style of dating. Best of all, you do not have to leave home to try it.

With a swish of a mouse you can have thousands of pictures and profiles parading across your screen. Presto! Singles interested in meeting and dating someone like you.  There’s not even a need to primp with makeup or splash on cologne.

There was a time when online dating was consider the place for the freaks and geeks to meet.Not so today. Now online dating is the cultural norm. More and more people are meeting online rather than by traditional dating.

You can now meet and fall in love with someone before even looking into their eyes or giving them a kiss! It happens daily on the internet.People routinely develop online friendships with men and women who live halfway across the world. Some of these friendships lead to committed and monogamous relationships where one or both of the individuals relocate to another city, state, or country. Marriages are happening from online dating on a routine bases.
Online dating is a practical option for busy or professional men and women who simply do not have time to meet other singles through traditional methods.
Dating Sites can be like entering another world, only this is the kind of world that can forever change you.

How about a Virtual Date? FindingMilitaryDates.com now has virtual dating. How about that for a first date. We love it. You can try virtual dating on all of Tangowires network of dating sites on sites like FindingMilitaryDates.com, ContemporaryDates.com, IvoryandEbonyLove.com, BlackBeautyDates.com, or BBWDatingNow.com.

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