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Online Dating Special this week with Tangowire

I work with Tangowire dating sites and this is the beginning of our 10 celebrations
Friday: Free Chat All Day and Bundle Memberships Pricing (along with premium membership they get additional addons – more gifts, more impressions)
Saturday: Two Free Gifts and Bundle Membership Pricing
Sunday: One Free Email and Bundle Membership Pricing
Monday: Double the Credits (buy 1 credit get 2) and $9.95 monthly memberships
Tuesday: Premium Search Features Free and $9.95 monthly memberships
Wednesday: Free Chat and $9.95 monthly memberships
Thursday: 5 Free SMS and $9.95 monthly memberships
Friday: One Free Email and Bundle Membership Pricing
Saturday: 2 Free Gifts and Bundle Membership Pricing
Sunday: Free Chat and Super DUPER Bundle Memberships

You can go to http://onlinedatingnow.net and go to any of the sites listed to get these deals and become part of the fun!

Online Dating Advice For Women~ The Dishy One

Another great one from the up and coming Blogger Dishy Divorcee. I adore this lady and her blog.

Crap I can’t make up: red flags to on-line dating

Ladies, take a deep breath. I’m about to let you in on a little secret. The hottie with the user name CupidCasanova in NYC – DOES NOT EXIST. I know, at first glance, your self-esteem likely sky rocketed when the message popped up: “he’s interested!” You’ve been misled. One of two things is probably happening: 1, his greasy sausage fingers are mousing over your image while he touches himself inappropriately or 2, he is a desperate, 60-year-old agoraphobic playing a big, fat joke on single ladies across America.

Drunk & Dating

Another red flag in online dating is the guy who showcases his drinking agility in 10 out of 12 profile pictures. The threshold to his dating interests stop at beer bongs, night clubs, and the probability of getting laid. Sure, it’s nice to know that he has fun with friends and can hold-down a 1.25 liter of Smirnoff, but is vomiting nightly and waking up with your underwear on backwards the way you want to spend your single days? Oh, another clue, this moderate drinker’s favorite pastimes include the gym, hangin’ at a local cigar shop and several 3-day trips to Las Vegas.

Red flag number 3: the man who gets carried away in the “I’m looking for” segment. Recently, I read an actual profile that stated the following:

[ I want a woman who can multitask, a BFF that to confide in & let my guard down totally with. 2. I want a mother to take care of me… 3. I want a seductress or tramp depending on the mood. I want to be wanted & not have to ask for it. 4. Finally, I want a devoted secretary that is there to help whatever the situation & can do it without losing respect in me. I could go on & on like this for pages. What do I pray for? I want a woman who will love me, for who I am.]

He started off on the right track, but then it all went terribly wrong. Did he really use the word secretary? Good luck with that!

Just keepin’ it real,

XXOO Dishy

Advice For Men ~Dishy's telling it!

Another post from that great Blogger and Twitter friend Dishy Divorcee…

Most women are NOT turned on by a man, in a wife beater t-shirt, holding a string of trout while leaning against a muscle car. While this might be a great way to display your accomplishments, this images does not cause a woman to say “I want me some of THAT.”

Another profile picture don’t is the blacked-out face of an old girlfriend. You know, the prom-like position with a well dressed blond and the online-would be-dater looking happy as clams. Only the blond no longer has a FACE and you are obviously not together anymore. Please, find a photo where you are the main attraction, not the face-less ex.

The murky grey, elementary school background. I’m amazed how many men (and I assume women) post a mystery photo from years gone by – the school cafeteria pose, sitting slightly sideways; chin tilted – is it 1971, 1984, 1993? It’s anyone’s guess. I give props to those who find the most obscure photo imaginable, but the braces and mullet completely throw me off.

A tricked-out photo: are those really six-pack abs? The naked truth about the naked torso is that, yes, we can see that you workout, but wouldn’t it be better to let us discover that on our own? Bottom line, it’s either an old photo from college or the shaded muscle definition has been added for effect.

The sultry-over-the-sunglasses-gaze. Unless you’re Patrick Dempsey, don’t attempt it. You just look ridiculous.

And for Pete’s sake, DON’T take a photo of yourself in the mirror.

Here are a few other quick thoughts:
■Don’t be embarrassed to have a friend or sibling take the photos of you. Its way less embarrassing than having one of the above don’ts out there.
■Find life-style photos where you, and only you, are the main attraction.
■Choose close-up, well-defined photos. (Taking a teeny-tiny photo and enlarging it will result in grainy, out-of-focus pictures.)
■Don’t post photos more than 5 years old.
■Post photos doing what you do best; cooking, sports, gardening, skiing, etc.

Just remember, you are the star attraction, not your abs, retro Miami-Vice clothing or bedroom eyes (Well, sometimes the eyes might work). Let me end by saying, the only thing worse than a bad photo is not posting a photo at all.

– XXOO

Dishy Divorcee

Advice For Men ~Dishy’s telling it!

Another post from that great Blogger and Twitter friend Dishy Divorcee…

Most women are NOT turned on by a man, in a wife beater t-shirt, holding a string of trout while leaning against a muscle car. While this might be a great way to display your accomplishments, this images does not cause a woman to say “I want me some of THAT.”

Another profile picture don’t is the blacked-out face of an old girlfriend. You know, the prom-like position with a well dressed blond and the online-would be-dater looking happy as clams. Only the blond no longer has a FACE and you are obviously not together anymore. Please, find a photo where you are the main attraction, not the face-less ex.

The murky grey, elementary school background. I’m amazed how many men (and I assume women) post a mystery photo from years gone by – the school cafeteria pose, sitting slightly sideways; chin tilted – is it 1971, 1984, 1993? It’s anyone’s guess. I give props to those who find the most obscure photo imaginable, but the braces and mullet completely throw me off.

A tricked-out photo: are those really six-pack abs? The naked truth about the naked torso is that, yes, we can see that you workout, but wouldn’t it be better to let us discover that on our own? Bottom line, it’s either an old photo from college or the shaded muscle definition has been added for effect.

The sultry-over-the-sunglasses-gaze. Unless you’re Patrick Dempsey, don’t attempt it. You just look ridiculous.

And for Pete’s sake, DON’T take a photo of yourself in the mirror.

Here are a few other quick thoughts:
■Don’t be embarrassed to have a friend or sibling take the photos of you. Its way less embarrassing than having one of the above don’ts out there.
■Find life-style photos where you, and only you, are the main attraction.
■Choose close-up, well-defined photos. (Taking a teeny-tiny photo and enlarging it will result in grainy, out-of-focus pictures.)
■Don’t post photos more than 5 years old.
■Post photos doing what you do best; cooking, sports, gardening, skiing, etc.

Just remember, you are the star attraction, not your abs, retro Miami-Vice clothing or bedroom eyes (Well, sometimes the eyes might work). Let me end by saying, the only thing worse than a bad photo is not posting a photo at all.

– XXOO

Dishy Divorcee

I've found a New Love~ Online Dating

The Sites We Love

I’m in love with something New..

MeetJuliet.com Brand new Relationship site that I’m in love with. Click to see a great site with some of the best features and prices I have seen in all my years. Post a profile and help get this started folks. You are going to love it.

Oldies but Goodies

The Dating sites that are reviewed here are from a trust company that been around for a while. Tangowire Dating is an integrated system of niche dating sites with over 70 niches. The staff at this company is outstanding and prides itself  on friendly fast service. They care about  your satisfaction and want you to have a good experience at their sites.  After 7 seven years promoting their sites I can tell you they care about this company and their members. All of these sites are free to join and have awesome site features making online dating fun and exciting.

Big-Beautiful-Dates.com is a BBW dating site for single big beautiful women and the men who adore them. Curves are in and this place worships them.

BlackBeautyDates.com Is the place for beautiful black single men and women to mingle. Online Dating in a community made just for black singles to find love and romance.

ContemporaryDates.com is a dating community for modern singles looking for love online in a site that has all the features a modern single would enjoy in an online dating community to chat and meet new people for dating and relationships.

FindingAsianDates.com beautiful asian singles dating community for meeting other asian singles and the singles that admire them.

FindingMilitaryDates.com if you are affiliated with the military and are singles and looking then this community is for you.  The site features like Go Mobile and virtual dating help men and women in the military date online while still in the field.

FireFighterPolice.com  this is another great site for single firefighters and single police officers. If you love a single in uniform this site is a must see.

GayDatingNow.Net is a romance and dating site for gay singles looking for love online.

IvoryandEbonyLove.com Interracial Dating for black and white singles in an online community for finding love and romance.

LatinoDatingNow.com A dating community for beautiful latin singles and the people who adore them. Find a beautiful latin lover today when you sign up for free.

LesbianLoversandFriends.com lesbian singles and bisexual women can find love,friendships, and relationships in an online dating community made just for them.

we have many more sites to choose from throughout the webpage. If there is a specialty dating site that you are looking for that is not in this list try our site search and I bet we have it. Happy hunting!!!!

I’ve found a New Love~ Online Dating

The Sites We Love

I’m in love with something New..

MeetJuliet.com Brand new Relationship site that I’m in love with. Click to see a great site with some of the best features and prices I have seen in all my years. Post a profile and help get this started folks. You are going to love it.

Oldies but Goodies

The Dating sites that are reviewed here are from a trust company that been around for a while. Tangowire Dating is an integrated system of niche dating sites with over 70 niches. The staff at this company is outstanding and prides itself  on friendly fast service. They care about  your satisfaction and want you to have a good experience at their sites.  After 7 seven years promoting their sites I can tell you they care about this company and their members. All of these sites are free to join and have awesome site features making online dating fun and exciting.

Big-Beautiful-Dates.com is a BBW dating site for single big beautiful women and the men who adore them. Curves are in and this place worships them.

BlackBeautyDates.com Is the place for beautiful black single men and women to mingle. Online Dating in a community made just for black singles to find love and romance.

ContemporaryDates.com is a dating community for modern singles looking for love online in a site that has all the features a modern single would enjoy in an online dating community to chat and meet new people for dating and relationships.

FindingAsianDates.com beautiful asian singles dating community for meeting other asian singles and the singles that admire them.

FindingMilitaryDates.com if you are affiliated with the military and are singles and looking then this community is for you.  The site features like Go Mobile and virtual dating help men and women in the military date online while still in the field.

FireFighterPolice.com  this is another great site for single firefighters and single police officers. If you love a single in uniform this site is a must see.

GayDatingNow.Net is a romance and dating site for gay singles looking for love online.

IvoryandEbonyLove.com Interracial Dating for black and white singles in an online community for finding love and romance.

LatinoDatingNow.com A dating community for beautiful latin singles and the people who adore them. Find a beautiful latin lover today when you sign up for free.

LesbianLoversandFriends.com lesbian singles and bisexual women can find love,friendships, and relationships in an online dating community made just for them.

we have many more sites to choose from throughout the webpage. If there is a specialty dating site that you are looking for that is not in this list try our site search and I bet we have it. Happy hunting!!!!

Online Dating~ Is It Safe?

Post from My dear friend and online dating expert AmericanCurvyGirl~ From the Blog RomancingTheWeb.com

I am often asked by people if Online Dating is safe.  I don’t blame people for being unsure about it because we hear stories and see things in the Media about some poor woman who was attacked or killed when she met a man from the internet.  The Media just loves a good Horror Story. That is how they make their living after all. If they keep us good and scared of “Online Stalkers and Predators”  we’re more likely to stay tuned so they can keep us safe.

My take on it is that for every one tragedy that comes from meeting someone online there is at least 1000 tragedies that happen when a woman meets a man at a bar, a dance club or any where for that matter. You see, when you meet someone online it’s okay to be cautious. It’s perfectly acceptable to get their name and address so you can leave it with your friend or maybe your mother.  Also, anyone smart will have spoken to each other on the phone quite a few times before deciding to meet.

Think about it.  When you meet someone online there is already a trail that can be followed in the event that something happens or you disappear.  The police will simply track the IP address from any emails or subpoena the dating site for any information they have.  If you are using a Dating Site that you both pay for there will also be credit card information that leads back to them.

To be honest I’m a cautious person myself. I don’t think I’d be out there using Craig’s List to meet people because I really would rather meet someone serious and grown up enough to use a real Dating Site.  However, should you choose that route for yourself you can still be safe.  Just get the person’s phone number and talk to them for a week or two before you decide to meet.  That way you know it’s probably not a stolen phone because it most likely would have been turned off within that amount of time.

When my friend Jayme met her husband Dave she even had his work number and had spoken to him at his office so she knew he was really who he said he was.  She was cautious and smart so she also told him outright that she had given a few of her friends his phone numbers as a safety net.  That is an excellent idea because we should never assume that a  killer or criminal is smart enough to realize that they would be easily caught.

If you just use caution and common sense you can make your Online Dating experience a very safe and secure adventure.  Of course I can’t guarantee you that there is nothing to fear. I mean there is always the possibility that you will have spinach in your teeth throughout all three courses. I’m sorry but you’re on your own when it comes to the really scary stuff.

She met her Husband online and they are still happily married. I spent a week on a cruise with this lovely loving couple. They are darling. It can happen for you too. Online dating can be safe if done wisely just like offline dating. Stop Wating Start Dating!!!

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